Keith - I usually put a little TO on the bridge unless I'm just happy with the way it looks. Usually, ebony I leave alone, EIR or anything else, I love the look of a little oil on it. I don't see why Danish would not work there as well.
I'll let others chime in on the fretboard edges as I don't have a particular opinion on that. When I bind the fretboard I do TO the wooden binding.
George Lowden uses a rubbed finish, not sure what kind, and it is rubbed to a satin sheen; Bruce Sexauer uses varnish; Dana Bourgeois offers a rubbed finish as an option, there are other top notch guys that use finishes other than spray on.
Terry - I really hope that you will share your finishing technique. There's always more to learn and since you have finished more guitars than I have I would love to benefit from your experience.
As to pore filling: I got this from a website some time ago:
http://www.woodmagazine.com/materials-g ... ng/?page=2
Filling pores with a homemade slurry:
A watery mix of insoluble materials is a slurry. To Jim, that means an oil/varnish, such as (Tru-Oil), mixed with sanding dust. "The (TO) darkens the pores for contrast," he says. "I pour a liberal amount on the surface, then sand vigorously with 100-grit-the paper has to produce sanding dust."
With burlap, a towel, or an old washcloth, Jim packs the slurry into the wood. "I don't wipe off any excess slurry," he notes. "I just let it dry overnight. Then, I sand it again, adding more oil if needed. The new sanding dust blends with the original slurry and further fills the pores when I pack it in. This time, I wipe off the excess before letting the surface dry. After the second slurrying, all the grain should be filled."
That is basically what I do. I do thin the TO - I mistakenly put 50/50 in my original post, it is actually at least 4 parts mineral spirits to 1 part TO.
There is a second approach that I have been testing and getting good results. It goes like this:
Sand to 120
Sand again with 120, this time making the slurry, sanding the slurry in but not so much you cannot wipe if off with a towel, paper or cloth.
Next morning:
Sand with 150
Sand again with 150, this time making the slurry etc.
Next morning:
Sand with 220 etc etc
I got that method from a finishing book, and actually over several days, 1 coat a day, got up to 800 grit and not only was it perfectly pore filled, it was perfectly leveled and frankly quite lovely. I did the same thing using the quick dry varnish and also spar varnish, and they all turned out just right.
I think that approach is worth a try on an instrument as well.